cari ouweneel
ya & mg author
Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Saturday, January 4, 2014
Happy 2014, patience is a virtue, self congratulations and all that
Happy 2014! Can you believe it? Neither can I. Nevertheless, here we are, right? What did you do to celebrate? My family is in the
habit of taking a hike on New Year’s day...
My lovies |
I want to be able to describe this in words so that you can see it without having to look at the picture |
In thinking about
the past and the future, which tends to happen this time of year, I came across
this old blog post that I wrote before that I don’t
remember ever sharing:
We’ve all heard the old adage that patience is
a virtue. It’s one I’ve learned to embrace on the path to creative writing
publication for sure.
Last Thursday I went to National Book Award
Finalist, Kent Haruf's author signing. He spoke about the writing process and
how when an author sits down to work that moment of getting it right makes one
feel like they are doing what they are really meant to in this world. I could
totally identify with that.
For me, writing is about emotion. It's where I
start and begin building from a nugget of a feeling I want to get across and
share. It’s also what I look for and resonate with when I read a story. When an
author has captured an image or a feeling exactly right, it's like looking in
the mirror and it validates the reader. This is what I hope to do. I also like
when an author captures something about life that I've noticed before but never
spoken out loud or put words to. One particular example comes to mind with Sue
Grafton's character Kinsey Millhone, noticing the dirt print underneath the
front door mat. We’ve all seen it, possibly swept underneath it from time to
time. But have you ever put words to it or discussed it much? Me neither but we
both know what she's talking about, don't we?
The publishing process varies for everyone but
to say it can be time consuming can often feel like the understatement of the
year. In Kent's case it took him twenty years to get something put into print
and paid for it.
So how does one keep their chin up in the
meantime? A belief in oneself.
I don't mean to sound arrogant, it's just
pretty simple really.
It's no coincidence that Oprah's life class on
her new network last week talked about believing in your self. Kent spoke of
this as well and added something about how there is a ton of writing talent out
there but not much follow through.
In one of Oprah's shows Jim Carrey mentioned
how he used to drive up to Mulholland Drive each night, look out over the
expanse of L.A. and visualize his acting success. He'd drive home thinking: It
is already mine it just hasn't materialized yet.
I love this power of visualization. It's a
useful tool for writers for obvious reasons, but one of the many is imagining
your success. What author hasn't? I've already written parts of my author talk
for school visits and book signings, part of my acknowledgement pages and have
given considerable thought and research to the design of my website. Dean
Koontz once said that the imagination is a tool that you can learn to develop.
Use it in your current work in progress. I suggest using it without abandon
during the process of waiting to get published. Patience is a virtue but an
active imagination doesn’t hurt. It's immensely useful in helping to pass the
time.
One of the aspects I
appreciate most about writing a blog is that I get to look back and recognize how much has been accomplished over time— something we often forget to do. It's hard to see on a daily basis. Did you leave a job in 2013? Start one? End a toxic relationship? Find the love of your life? What ever it is, find something about this past year that's changed and take a moment to pat yourself on the back!
*done channeling Oprah for now*
Sunday, December 1, 2013
Would you read this?
Hi guys!
If you follow my tweets, you'll know I was in NM last month doing some preliminary research for my next book. Here is a picture clue:
And another one:
Lastly:
The premise:
For valedictorian Kai Begay, an unexpected visit to a national historic petroglyph site called Picture Rock brings her face to face with Kokopelli; an ancient Indian rock art deity turned into a handsome human version of the fertility God and puts a serious dent into her “picture” perfect future plans.
Whadya think? Would you wanna read something like this?
Monday, October 14, 2013
Fall
Yesterday, my daughter and I walked to Blockbuster to rent a couple of movies.
My Knight In Shining Armor and Prince went snowshoe hare hunting in the
mountains. But first, they had to stop by Cabelas to get Hansel a new pair of
boots. I mean, look here:
Men’s size 9.5 and
he’s only eleven years old! His Royal Highness grows out of shoes quicker than you can blink and we always get at LEAST a half a size bigger than he needs. One might think that I'd given birth to a Hobbit except for the fact that he is tall, too.
Gretel and I both
love fall. Here is the view outside our castle this morning.
I am
very inspired creatively this time of year; a period of going inward. I seek
solitude. It gives me peace of mind and allows
me to let my thoughts go and recharge.
Also, everything
pumpkin. I mean, you’ve pretty much got to be a Nazi if you don’t like pumpkin.
Pretty |
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Colorado Book Signing
Here are some pics from yesterday’s book signing at Barbed Wire Books in Longmont, Colorado.
Getting Set Up |
My favorite part was
talking shop with fellow authors and readers.
From left to right: Me, Mary Kathleen Rose, Jason Gage, Nancy Mervar |
One of the things I
love most about Barbed Wire is that there are books tucked away in every
cranny, nook and corner, including the bathroom! Love that. It was great to meet
new faces and say hello to familiar ones. Thank you Kathe, staff, authors and
readers for a great day at Barbed Wire Books!
Monday, September 23, 2013
Colorado Author Book Signing
I am pleased to announce that Colorado Author Book Signing will take place on Saturday, October 5th, from 1-5 pm at Barbed Wire Books.
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Colorado Author Live!
Hi guys!
I wanted to take a
quick moment and let you know that Colorado Author Live! is scheduled for
Saturday, October 5th from 1pm to 4pm at Barbed Wire Books. So mark
your calendars and join me and over 35 local authors for book signings and
giveaways!
I am happy to tell
you that I should have print copies of APART available for signing and for sale
that day! Deets coming soon…
Take care,
Cari
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